Saturday, 27 June 2026

Kindness

by: Gord Barker


    Maybe it's because of the "51st state" rhetoric emanating from the orange blob in charge of things south of the border, but I've noticed that, here in Canada, we seem to have accentuated our legendary niceness.

    I noticed it the other day while riding on public transit in Hamilton, Ontario. Yup, in steel town, "the Hammer", arguably one of the toughest cities in Canada, people say, "Thank you." or, "Have a good day!" when getting off of the bus!  

    Patting dogs, holding doors, being kind to strangers, giving up seats on the bus for the elderly or disabled, tipping at the local coffee shop, dropping a looney to a busking street musician, simply smiling and striking up a chat with someone in a public space. It seems that the nastier and more divisive "they" get, the kinder and gentler we get!

    Okay, Refractive Reasoning is a blog about photography and photographic life. What does this have to do with life behind the camera? Just this, it's always easier to make a photograph of someone when they are happy and smiling. It's also easier for the photographer to create a cool image when they are in the right frame of mind.



Yellow Glasses Guy
This gentleman kindly consented to having his picture taken while he was
waiting for the bus.
James St. N., Hamilton Ontario



Boy and "Dog"
Barton Village Festival
Barton St., Hamilton, Ontario

     

Barton St. "Shootout"
Barton Village Festival
Hamilton, Ontario


Steel Drum Player
Locke St.,
Hamilton, Ontario

     Closer to home, Paris, Ontario is undergoing its second Summer of downtown construction. The  "Downtown Dig" has been a substantial disruption for business owners and residents alike. Local business owner, Emery Silva, decided to do something to promote business in the downtown core by sprucing up the buildings on Mechanic St. where her own shop, Bird & Bee Vintage               https://www.birdandbeevintage.com/ is located in Le Petite Marché. https://www.facebook.com/p/Le-Petit-March%C3%A9-61575548461219/

    Businesses along Mechanic St. are receiving a new coat of paint in bright colours in a bid to help overcome the frustration and monotony of traffic having to take a detour through the downtown core. (Mechanic St. is part of the detour route.) Making the best of an adverse situation makes things nicer for everyone.


Le Petit Painteurs
L-R  Emery, Mia and Hannah
Mechanic St.
Paris, Ontario
 



  

Emery In Action
Mechanic St., Paris, Ontario
 


    And finally, it's the little acts of kindness I see that make the difference in daily life. Like watching Liz Spanjer, Community liaison with Navicon Construction, assist Paris, Ontario resident, Emily, to navigate the construction matts across the Downtown Dig.

Liz and Emily
Grand River St. N.
Paris, Ontario

   

 Despite everything, human kindness conquers all.

                        ...more later


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